New Energetic Connections

One of the best things when you change your energy, the roles you play or your belief system is that you start to attract new people and situations that match your new energy! It can be a wonderful time to start to connect with people that you might not have had in the past. You may discover a new version of yourself that is loved, respected and cherished by new healthy people. You might see yourself differently than you had in the past. When you attract new people and situations in your life it is a reflection of how you are changing. Your new energy is drawing in people that match it. You are saying what you deserve to have in your life. And it is showing up in beautiful ways. So how can you recognize these new connections? And more importantly how can you see it as a reflection of the changes you have made in your life?

Most of us formed energetic connections early on with who was in our immediate surroundings. This is our family, friends and community. We learn about ourselves based on how people around us form an opinion of us and how they treat us. We then form an opinion of ourselves of who we are based on this information from others. If they love us, treat us with respect, or are they critical or cruel. When we are younger, we do not have a strong sense of self, and this is normally created based on what we experience from others. So, if you have healthy people around you, they treat you with love and respect. If not, you may experience people projecting their issues onto you, not receiving the love you needed. And it can even give you a false sense of self. Creating a version of yourself that is convenient for what others need but not a true reflection of you.

You can see how hard it might be to unwind or remove ideas, experiences and beliefs that were never yours to own. And in that process also discover who you really are and want to be. But when you do that is when you discover new energetic connections. You will be drawn to healthy people that see you differently. They appreciate and love things about you that others in the past may have been threatened by or were uncomfortable with. When you heal and learn to love yourself you draw in people that also love you as you. They appreciate the brightness of energy you bring. They love your kindness and ability to give or share. They respect you. But more importantly they also want to give to you. Share in the energy you create together.

New energetic connections can create a feeling of safety. If you never felt safe in the past it is hard to show the full version of you. Instead of holding back parts of yourself, new connections can hold space for you to be fully you. They see the kind and loving energy. They see the strength that was needed to navigate the past. They appreciate the person you have become. They reflect back how you feel about yourself. You see yourself in a whole new way. You start to understand you are loveable and not a threat or burden to others. You can put your guard down and enjoy life. No longer needing to be on high alert of making someone angry or upset for just being you. New energetic connections give you a chance to experience a new version of you.

Notice who you start connecting with in your life. Has it changed from your past experiences? It may be difficult at first to feel comfortable or trust since it is so new. But let yourself receive and practice the beautiful healthy people you are drawing into your life. Balance current connections with the new ones entering your life. Make room to explore and experience these new connections. Discover more about yourself. You may see yourself differently than you did in the past. You may be changing your belief system. When you do healing or transformational work you will start to draw in new energetic connections. And they are reflecting back the new version you are seeing in yourself. So, if you experience more love and kindness know that you are finally giving that to yourself. Enjoy these new energetic connections and discover the beautiful version of yourself that is ready to explore life!